When...

... you disappear into the bedroom to nap, I feel left alone and abandoned.  I want our home to be a home and I don't want to delay.

...I'm working through an issue with Evelyn, give me the space and the grace to parent her whether or not you know a better way.  If there's a better way, approach me privately and let me know what you've learned, but don't correct me in front of her, as it will undermine my role as a father.

...you disappear with Evelyn without acknowledging me in front of her, she's learning that this is okay, and it's not okay with me.